As a mom, life can be chaotic and wild, and some days I feel like I’ve done well in teaching my kids about God. Other days, I wonder if I’ve even scratched the surface. But one thing I’ve learned is that talking to our kids about God isn’t about being perfect—it’s about being intentional.
Faith isn’t something that just happens on Sunday mornings. It’s woven into the mess, chaos, and beauty of everyday life. The laundry piles, tantrums, car rides, and dinner conversations are all sacred opportunities to point our kids to the One who loves them more than we ever could.
Here are some ways that I am trying to teach my kids about God in the middle of real life.
Turn Everyday Moments Into Faith Lessons
I used to think I needed to set aside “holy” time to talk to my kids about God. But then I realized that everyday life is full of holy moments waiting to happen.
One day, my daughter was mesmerized by a flower in our backyard. Instead of rushing her inside, I knelt down and said, “Isn’t it amazing how God made something so beautiful? He put so much thought into this little flower—and He put even more thought into you.”
It wasn’t a planned Bible lesson. It was just a moment. And that’s often all it takes.
Now, when we see a rainbow or talk about the stars at bedtime, I remind my kids, “God made this. He made you. And He loves you so much.”
Be Honest About Your Own Faith
One of the hardest things for me has been admitting my struggles to my kids. But I’ve learned that being vulnerable with them is powerful.
There was a day I was overwhelmed—completely drained. I snapped at my kids for something small and immediately felt guilty. That night, I sat with them and said, “I’m sorry I got angry today. I was feeling stressed, but that’s not an excuse. I prayed and asked God to help me do better tomorrow. Will you forgive me?”
Their little “It’s okay, Mom” broke me. But it also reminded me that showing them my need for God is one of the best ways to teach them about Him.
Let Their Questions Lead the Way
Kids ask the best—and sometimes hardest—questions. “Why can’t we see God?” “Why do people get sick if God loves us?” “Is God watching me all the time?”
At first, these questions made me nervous. What if I didn’t have the right answer? But I’ve learned it’s okay to say, “I don’t know, but let’s figure it out together.”
When my daughter asked why bad things happen, I said, “That’s a really big question. The truth is, I don’t fully know. But I do know that God is always with us, even when things are hard. And He promises to make everything right one day.”
Their questions are windows into their hearts, and every time they ask, it’s an opportunity to help them grow in faith. Talking to kids about God doesn’t mean we have to have the answers, we just have to share what God has taught us.
Make Worship Part of Your Everyday Life
Worship in our house doesn’t always look pretty. Sometimes it’s my toddler spinning in circles during a worship song while my other kid bangs on a pot like a drum. But that’s okay. Worship isn’t about perfection—it’s about connection.
We have a playlist of worship songs we love to play during dinner or while we clean up toys. The kids love singing along, and it’s a simple way to remind them (and me!) of God’s goodness.
At bedtime, we pray together. I let my kids take turns praying for whatever’s on their hearts, even if it’s as simple as, “Thank you for my teddy bear.” It’s not about the words—it’s about teaching them to talk to God like the loving Father He is.
Teach Through Your Failures
I used to think I needed to have my act together before I could teach my kids about God. But the truth is, some of the most meaningful lessons have come from my failures.
One day, I was rushing to get us out the door, and I completely lost my patience. I snapped at my son for moving too slowly. Later, I felt so convicted. I knelt down and said, “Mommy wasn’t kind earlier. I was frustrated, but that wasn’t okay. I prayed and asked Jesus to help me be more patient. Can we pray together about it?”
I saw the grace in his eyes as he hugged me and said, “It’s okay, Mommy.” In that moment, I realized I wasn’t just teaching him about grace—I was receiving it, too.
Bring God Into Their World
Kids are constantly trying to make sense of the world, and one of the best ways to talk to them about God is by connecting His truths to their everyday experiences.
- When They’re Scared of the Dark: My daughter hates going to bed because of the shadows on the wall. One night, I sat with him and said, “You know, the Bible says, ‘When I am afraid, I put my trust in You’ (Psalm 56:3). Let’s pray and ask God to help you feel brave because He’s always with you.” Now, he reminds me of that verse when he’s feeling scared.
- When They Face Challenges: When my daughter struggled with a new skill, I told her about Philippians 4:13: “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.” We prayed together and asked God to help her keep trying.
- When They See Beauty: Whether it’s a sunset, a rainbow, or a snowstorm, I love pointing out how these moments reflect God’s creativity. I’ll say, “Isn’t it amazing that God made all of this? He’s so powerful and so good.”
Connecting God’s Word to their world shows them that He’s not just someone we talk about at church—He’s part of their everyday life.
Pray With and For Them
Prayer is one of the simplest yet most powerful ways to teach kids about God. Let them see you pray—not just for them, but with them.
- Pray Before Big Moments: Whether it’s a test at school or trying something new, pause and pray with your kids, asking God to guide them.
- Pray Through the Hard Stuff: When they’re upset, scared, or hurt, stop and pray together. It doesn’t have to be long or complicated—just honest.
- Let Them Hear You Pray for Them: At bedtime, I often pray out loud for my kids, thanking God for who they are and asking Him to help them grow in His love. Hearing those prayers helps them feel seen, valued, and deeply loved.
Prayer shows them that God is someone we can talk to anytime about anything.
Grace in Every Moment
Talking to our kids about God doesn’t have to be perfect. Trust me, I’ve had plenty of moments where I’ve stumbled over words or missed opportunities. But God is faithful to work through our efforts, no matter how small.
When I feel overwhelmed, I remind myself that my role isn’t to have all the answers—it’s to point my kids to the One who does. He will fill in the gaps.
So, mama, keep going. Keep talking to your kids about God in the big moments and the small ones. Share your faith, your struggles, and your joy. Let your kids see that God is real, that He’s good, and that He loves them more than they could ever imagine.